Wednesday, December 22, 2010

#56 Hey You ! ( Yes you know I'm talking to you )

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better".You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.


Something I read and really want someone to take note of. Read this and get it into your head to stop making a fool of yourself.
You know who you are.
Yes you!


SEPO said...

I love these lines! Yes I do!
You did a great job by sharing them!

to you and oprah

- Sugar Cube - said...

Amazingly true! Spot on!

Thx for sharing

Koo said...

such an awesome and true quote! Thanks for sharing. :)

Dhupa said...

simply awesum !!!
grtly said by oprah...n thnx to u for sharing..

Vivarjitha said...

nice one:)

G said...

Not very surprising that there are no comments from guys on this one ....

I shall take the liberty to assume their silence to be an embarrassed acknowledgment of this being undoubtedly true :D